There are good things about this film. See it if you are looking for a light-hearted experience.
It shows some good parts of "assisted" marriage very well, while also acknowledging how these traditional practices are coming under stress by modern culture.
A BULLSEYE.
The line " .. it must start with a simmer .." is just beautiful.
Another BULLSEYE.
They started showing how the positive aspects of "assisted" partnering can be hugely beneficial in "Western" culture.
Another BULLSEYE.
I like the way the female character was portrayed as someone who chases career and recognition above all else, then suddenly looks at her life, and her thoughts go to other things. Something (I think) that resonates with much of modern western society.
Another BULLSEYE.
So the movie started to take me down a deep and sensitive path about relationships, family pressures and expectations, the clash of cultures, acceptance, risk and courage. The underlying concept that people will "grow into Love" ... as heralded by the title ... made me expect a particular kind of movie. Then it changed.
They took a "stock standard" turn and cover everything in sugar syrup, whipped cream and choc sprinkles that completely overturns the whole build up. A school child could have written the last 20 mins.
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Many people will love this film, and there are some really good parts. It opens a door of great possibility with potential riches of emotion, cultural stresses and conflict, and just takes a little peek inside.
I would love someone to make a movie where this door is thrown open with abandon. Until then, enjoy this little Rom-Com.